This is a good advice for women and as well for men to be educated accordingly related to love.

There are so many women who are into their angry state when a girl just only touches the tip of her boyfriend's hair. That's one of the concrete examples or characteristics of a jealous girlfriend.

This is all about how to move a girl out from a jealous or paranoid mentality to a secure and mature woman.

So is it really all about insecurities?

 I know that one of the things that boys think when their girlfriend is jealous is that the one they like/love has a lot of insecurities going on in her mind which worsen her paranoia. But I think another factor to consider is relationship experience.

Whether you agree or not, if your old love was very jealous then probably you'll be too. Let's face the reality that no one knows how to make a relationship work fully and productively on the first try. So then we somehow rely on our partner who helps us establish a relationship pattern. What it means is that both of put and conclude an idea of what a "perfect relationship". Friends might also have contributed the notion of how to run relationship. Girls share what they know with their gal pals and they learn the ropes together. It's like that the blind leading another blind until someone stumbles on some golden nuggets of relationship advice.

How to Stop Being a Paranoid Girlfriend During the Initial Stages of Your Relationship? 

 1. Give Him a “Grace Period” 

It will take a while before the boy switches in his "love brain" activates, so it won’t do any good to force him to change instantly. Some men won’t instantly change his lifestyle just because they have a girlfriend.

If you begin your dating life with the thought that your partner should automatically shut off other women from his life just because he already has a girlfriend, you’re setting yourself up for a heartbreak every time reality tells you this is not the case.

He may still go out with his friends to meet women, flirt with his hot office mate and still go to places where single men hang out. If you get jealous every time one or all of these things happen, your first months together will become very rocky and stressful.

Reading someone else’s mail is a! big NO!, even if that guy is your boyfriend and you’re only glancing at his mail. Some couples exchange email passwords to show that they trust each other which is a bad idea.

Even if you don’t mind showing your mail to your boyfriend, don’t ask to see his. To most men (and to most people), getting their mail opened by another person is the psychological equivalent of another person wearing their undies without permission or another person watching them while they do their business inside the toilet.

One last thing, being jealous is really STRESSFUL, which will just aggravate your look. So, quit it.

credits : evil woobie